This short little clip is SO very insightful and helpful if you want to learn how to show true empathy for those who are grieving (it's not Holy Scripture, mind you, but it is the voice of personal experience and good sense).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw&feature=share&fbclid=IwAR2qZw5xcQRUG0L1bYfOP3CLrUrSNriMkf1B3EQuqGyqhb-OHWZ3GIkalOY